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Friendship Chocolate Chip Cookies

May 8, 2020 4 Comments

These make the best thin chewy chocolate chip cookies. I call these friendship cookies because it makes such a huge batch. You can half the recipe if …

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Three Ingredients Banana Bread

May 8, 2020 4 Comments

A quick easy banana bread recipe. Perfect for when you have over ripen bananas or need a quick dessert for unexpected guest. Ingredients 3 …

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Haitian Pikliz

May 8, 2020 2 Comments

Ingredients 3 cups of cabbage (roughly a 1/2 head of cabbage )bag of baby carrots yellow onion 1/2 of red bell pepper 1/2 of yellow bell pepper …

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STAY OUT OF OUR UTERUSES⁣ ⁣ the woman who deci STAY OUT OF OUR UTERUSES⁣
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the woman who decides she only want one child ⁣
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the woman who decides she wants to solely adopt instead of having biological children ⁣
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the woman who decides she doesn’t want any children⁣
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the woman who decides she want to go through IVF instead of “just adopting” ⁣
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the woman who wants a child but struggles with infertility ⁣
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the woman who decides she want to have large family ⁣
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The decision to have children or not should be up to the person who is going to have that child! Period. ⁣
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The comments I’ve been getting recently have been disgusting. Reading them I realized it there is no “perfect” family scenario that would please everyone and I really don’t want to please everyone!⁣
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Drue and I have worked really hard to build and provide for our family. Each child that has joined our family either through adoption or pregnancy has been wanted and cared for. So unless you are willing to contribute your time and money, I don’t want to hear it.
Maybe there is a reason why you had a miscarriage Maybe there is a reason why you had a miscarriage and you should just adopt again. ⁣⁣
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That comment someone said after my miscarriage was probably the most hurtful comment. It also made me so angry because I feel like people have this idea that couples only adopt because they cannot have children of their own. ⁣⁣
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Oh you just had your fifth miscarriage? Adopt.⁣⁣
Oh your going through IVF? Why spend all that money you should adopt.⁣⁣
Unexplained infertility? Adopt. ⁣⁣
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You guys the solution to these problems aren’t adoption.⁣⁣
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I didn’t adopt to try to replace the child I loss. ⁣⁣
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I adopted because I wanted to give a child the love, guidance, security to a child who didn’t have it because every child deserves that. ⁣⁣
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Those are the reason why anyone should adopt. ⁣⁣
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So the next time someone is going through infertility, the loss of a child or going through IVF please stop yourself from telling them they should ”just adopt” ⁣⁣
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It will never come off the way you hoped for.
SURPRISE SHAWTY! ⁣⁣
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Merry Christmas, ⁣ ⁣ ⁣ love the Wilders Merry Christmas, ⁣
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Anyone else sad that we’re have to wait till nex Anyone else sad that we’re have to wait till next year to say ⁣
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“I guess I’m just gonna have to tell Santa about the choices you’ve making” ⁣
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I had a miscarriage during the pandemic. ⁣ ⁣ I I had a miscarriage during the pandemic. ⁣
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I know I wasn’t the first or the only one. ⁣
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I felt like I had done everything right. I tracked my cycle for months. Took my prenatals. Did my research and found a Black obgyn in my area. Got my positive test. Had my HCG levels checked every 48 hrs. ⁣
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Everything was going great until it wasn’t. ⁣
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I woke up one morning and all my pregnancy symptoms were gone and I just knew. I had my HCG levels checked one last time but i knew I would getting a phone call with bad news. ⁣
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The thing about having a miscarriage during a pandemic is that it’s made a moment that already feels so lonely even more lonelier. I felt like I couldn't complain. People are losing their lives, jobs, businesses during the pandemic...and so I kept it to myself. Drue and I have leaned on each other a lot these few months. Therapy is helping me pick up the pieces. It's been hard for us but we've been through this rodeo before and we know the work we need to do. ⁣
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For anyone who going through a miscarriage during these especially hard times, I'm sorry this just SUCKS. Get the help you need, lean on those who will help and listen to you and take your time.
I look at my daughters and I can’t help but see I look at my daughters and I can’t help but see all the similarities we have. I have two biracial daughters and one white daughter and I know outwardly people can only see how we look so different but I see the...⁣
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sassiness, strength, kindness, nurturing, resilience, creativity in my girls. ⁣
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Moms what is one non physical attribute that you see in your daughter? ⁣

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